Since Leaving the JW's - Have you Changed your Medical Contact Person ?

by flipper 22 Replies latest jw friends

  • flipper
    flipper

    In case of a really serious medical emergency- it's something to seriously consider. Otherwise former aquaintances like JW elders in your former congregations or allegedly well meaning JW relatives who may have been listed by you as your emergency contacts might try running interference regarding the medical treatment you receive ! Which may actually cost us our life, literally if a blood transfusion is needed to save us.

    I finally changed my emergency medical contacts a few years ago legally to my non-Witness wife, my non-Witness mother in law, and my non-Witness adult son. When I was at the doctor there were several forms I had to sign like emergency contacts, who would have power of attorney in case I was unconcious, those kinds of things. It relieved me and made me feel a whole lot safer than if I hadn't done that !

    The recent experience of Aquagirl and her JW mom ( thanks for the idea Aquagirl ! ) receiving so much intrusion into their privacy from elders and JW family members I believe emphasizes the need for many of us to perhaps think about how important this is to do.

    So how many of you have changed your contacts to non-Witness friends and relatives ? Or do you still have JW's down as your contacts in case of emergencies ? Or any other thoughts you might have would be helpful to all of us too ! Thanks. Take care, Peace out, Mr. Flipper

  • designs
    designs

    Wow flipper, been gone over 10 years and hadn't thought about it! Thanks

  • Dagney
    Dagney

    I'm here if you need me for anything.

    I am not sure what I did either.

  • designs
    designs

    Great! Let's get together...we can sign our new anti-anti blood cards

  • NewChapter
    NewChapter

    I changed that IMMEDIATELY, and still mention everytime I have to undergo a procedure so the information is fresh and on top,.

  • flipper
    flipper

    DESIGNS- I hear what you're sayin ' ! I waited about 5 years AFTER I stopped attending to change my contacts ! It just kind of hit me like a ton of bricks that if I got seriously injured all my JW relatives might have tried bullying the doctors if I was incapacitated somehow.

    DAGNEY- That's a nice offer ! I'll keep that in mind. Or were you offering that To Designs ? LOL ! Now I'm embarrassing myself. We are good to go up here ! Kinda tired tonight, I'm a bit giddy. I might have misunderstood you

  • flipper
    flipper

    NEW CHAPTER- Good for you ! Very smart on your part to have changed that immediately after exiting the Witnesses. And to keep reminding them to check it is great too

  • Dagney
    Dagney

    LOL, Mr. Flipper, yes I was talking to designs. I figured you are luckily all taken care of in department.

    It probably isn't a bad idea to offer to exJW's if they need support in this. We'll have a DPA signing party.

    Sounds like all is well with you Mr. Flipper...good to know! xx

  • Morbidzbaby
    Morbidzbaby

    Thanks for the reminder, flipper. I actually have to do this. My emergency contact for work is my boyfriend, but as for medical stuff, I have to change my information. I mean, I live in a different part of the country now, so chances are it would be him and friends who made the decisions anyway, I just want to make sure NO ONE ELSE has the power to come in and all of a sudden say "Well, we're her family".

  • flipper
    flipper

    DAGNEY- I figured I was misinterpreting your statement. LOL ! That is very kind of you to offer support to Designs that way. Way to go ! I agree it's a good thing we can do for each other here on the board with folks in our area. All is well with me and the Mrs. health ! Yes indeed, very lucky so far

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