@NancyDrew...I have taken the hit...my family has disowned me...my ex-wife continues to indoctrinate our son even though he is clearly struggling with it...for his sake I had not taken more radical steps...
@prodigalson...I am not sure what you mean perhaps you can PM me with a more detailed explanation...I welcome your observations...
@AGuest...I was using this thread to talk these issues out...Mankeli was just a prop...due to my previous responsibilities I will not be allowed to just walk away...I will have to be put out or quit...it has taken a year for me to get to this point, but I am finally ready...