Sorry to hear that Ranchette. The best I can say is set a good example for them. They live empty lives as JW's, and have no answers for life's problems (I'm speaking of my experiences, and those of my relatives). Most of my immediate family have left the WT after seeing that I didn't get struck by lightning after leaving - and actually am doing far better out than I ever did in. The WT teaches that those that leave mostly implode, and I have been determined to show them (the WT) wrong :)