Voices you are beating around the bush.
LWT answered your question and you are not satisfied or will not accept his answer.
This goes back to your 1st post where you stated:
There is a God and the false representation of him through religion has cast a great dark shadow that is hard to see through.
This is not just the religions its THE PEOPLE who claim to be god fearing and to transcend religion but they STILL have the judgemental attitude against those who dont share their belief.
In all the ways religous folk claim we are suppose to get to know god is subject to personal interpretation. If you claim the bible and said bible is used to destroy that argument the final reply is always some etheral aspect that just has to happen.
I'll repeat LWT question:
In your opinion, what method does God use to reach the people he intends to save?