I was one of the 12%, but I couldn't say it out loud. I don't know how I managed to stay in as long as I did---but cognitive dissonance ran strong with this one. My stomach would tighten when people started talking about the horrors of homosexuality, I would counter with the idea that the bible didn't hold homosexuality as any worse than heterosexual fornication---therefore there was no need to have a special hate for it. When some would announce that they would no longer listen to certain bands because they have gay members, I would ask them if they also rejected bands that were involved in other types of fornication.
Now today, I don't even recognize the concept of fornication. It's just a way to give a perjorative label to something based on the bible's moral code which no longer holds authority for me.
12% sounds high at first---but then I think of myself and my silence. We don't know who the others are----until they end up here and fess up.
Oh how lovely it is to not hate gay people---and to be free to say so!
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