@Leeca:
So no rule requiring parents to shun their children. If so why am I being shunned by my parents?
I don't know. You will have to ask your parents. There is no rule.
I'm NOT disfellowshipped, nor have I sinned against god. Just decided the religion wasn't for me. Never spoke against the religion, I actually used to defend it.
All of this is just dandy in my opinion, but you will have to ask your parents why they are shunning you, and you might have the enlist the aid of the local elders in their congregation to get an answer.
There was an article stating NOT to have transplants, it was likened to cannibalism. New Light on that subject since.
That was ignorance, and Jehovah's Witnesses have been known to print some ignorant stuff. Both Charles Russell and Judge Rutherford has a few zany beliefs, but this didn't mean that Jehovah couldn't use these men to accomplish his purpose for this time. Why Jehovah used two pagans -- Nebuchadnezzar and Cyrus -- to accomplish his will, so why not Russell and Rutherford? This change wasn't new light, but an error that needed to be corrected.
Vaccinations was evil, do NOT get your child vaccinated. New Light on that subject too.
More ignorance at work. This change wasn't new light either, but just another correction that had to be made. Perhaps it is the receiving of new information that one didn't have before that becomes "new light" to the person that receives it.
I've made mistakes in the past and I've said some things about which I was totally wrong. It wasn't that there was some new light on the matter on which I had been wrong: I just didn't know once upon a time that the Bible never gave any indication of the fruit that Adam and Eve ate. How is my thinking Adam and Eve had eaten an apple only to discover later on that the Bible is silent on this constitute "new light"? If you are ignorant about something, you're just ignorant, and to hear you say what you're saying to me here about these views formerly held by some Jehovah's Witnesses in the past -- and not me, but some of those before me -- makes you come off as ignorant. Many young children innocently believed in Santa Claus. They were ignorant at that time. They became informed and were ignorant no more.
What do you mean no rules on blood transfusions. Errr... That's what the religion is known for.
Most people do not know what Jehovah's Witnesses believe as to the sacredness of blood, so how could they possibly know what our view is on blood transfusions? People tend to "know" Jehovah's Witnesses as being the religious group that doesn't celebrates holidays or birthdays. Some of those that have attended school with the children of Jehovah's Witnesses know them as the ones they knew in school that would stand, but would never recite the Pledge of Allegiance and never put their hands above their hearts as everyone else sang "The Star Spangled Banner" in the classroom. I really don't know how to answer your question, except to say that Jehovah's Witnesses are not known as the religion that doesn't accept blood transfusions. This is your view.
Why the blood cards we all HAD to have, baptized or not? As I am medically trained blood transfusions and blood fractions are the exact same thing. No wonder they want their members uneducated.
I resent your remark. What if I attended college while some other Jehovah's Witnesses did not attend college: Does this mean that those that didn't attend college are less educated than I am? I'm not a doctor; does this make me more educated than a lawyer or less educated than a lawyer? You drive a city bus; does that make you more educated than I am when it comes to driving a car or less educated than I am when it comes to driving car? I know how to recover all of the media files (MP3s, videos, photos, document files) that you thought were lost when a virus took down your Windows box so that you could no longer start Windows; does this make me more talented country singer than Carrie Underwood or a less talented singer than Carrie Underwood?
Why you had a blood card, I don't really know, but it wasn't because having a blood card made you an expert on blood transfusions or on blood fractions, so why even ask me such a question? Your question is as foolish as the three questions with which I began the previous paragraph.
Many years ago there was a wt article and talk about beards. Beards were banned, everyone who had one had to shave them off immediately. Some brothers who did have beards did complain, but like good little foot soldiers obeyed. No beards is a rule, not a choice.
And the problem with this article was...?
There was a talk about a sister who had the audacity to wear a pants suit to a [meeting, she] was publicly reproved. The only time ever I saw a sister wear pants to a meeting in 26 years. She suffered public humiliation in the cong for daring to wear pants.
Ok, but did you humiliate the woman? Were you among those that subjected the sister to public humiliation? If this sister was publicly reproved as you indicate here she was, then the body of elders that voted to disfellowship her did so for reasons about which you are to this very day unaware. This story of yours is nonsense.
I remember having to sit through another talk, stating married couples, those dating are NOT to hold hands during prayer at the meetings. Apparently it was stumbling others. So yes another man made rule.
Maybe the brother that made this statement thought that it looked wrong to him to see couples or those dating holding hands when a prayer was uttered in the Kingdom Hall, but why make this a federal case? I'm not going to hold it against you if I should see you holding anyone's hand while I'm offering a prayer on behalf of everyone in attendance following one of our meetings. I'm not! I don't have such a rule and neither do the congregations of God. If such a talk should have stumbled anyone, the stumbled one(s) would have done better to have brought the matter to the attention of the presiding overseer of the local congregation, and there are also elders outside of the congregation to whose attention this matter could have been brought.
A talk that was given finally "stumbled" me, never went back after that meeting. He said that none of us are good enough, not doing enough, really why are we here at the meeting if we are not devoting every inch of ours lives to the ORGANISATION. No mention of devotion to Jehovah. Yes in that moment I did think, what the hell am I doing here? And that was before the talk had even finished. It was like I had my eyes open for the first time. That was the last meeting I ever attended. Wonder how many others have left over a talk that "stumbles" them?
Well, I'm sorry to hear that you were stumbled over someone telling you that you weren't good enough and/or wasn't doing enough. I don't know how you knew that the brother delivering this talk was talking do you, but, oh, well: If the shoe fits....
Excuse me, @Leeca, if I sound rather calloused about this whole affair, but is there anything else besides "new light" and your people being "stumbled" by men that you would like to bring to my attention? I do admit that I'm not as sensitive as you are about what I view as little human foibles. In Christ, I've learned how to forgive all such, but I really do want to hear every one of your gripes. and, please, don't worry about my time: I'll take the time.
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