I was born and raised in SoCal. There was, and is, much to like about California. Parts of it are breathtakingly beautiful and certain areas are unmatched by anything else in the world. On clear days, fly-over photography of San Francisco, Los Angeles and San Diego show their magnificent topography and unique settings. There are days when you can be swimming in the warm waters of the Pacific while gazing at snow-capped peaks off to the east. You can literally swim in the ocean in the morning and snow ski in the afternoon.
From a societal standpoint, California has always been way ahead of the rest of the country in terms of acceptance of ethnic, racial, and sexual minorities. When I was going to public school in Riverside in the 1950s, we had Mexican-American, African-American, and Asian-American students in every classroom and none of us gave it a second thought.
I now live in Oregon. As I write this, I am sitting in a motel in San Juan Capistrano, California. The weather is nice, except for the chilly ocean breezes at night. But just a few hundred yards from this hotel is the Interstate 5 freeway. It's busy 24 hours a day. For someone like me who has been away from the Los Angeles area for a few months - the traffic can be terrifying. No one drives the speed limit (70 MPH) except me and I feel like I'm being run over most of the time. Everyone drives aggressively in CA - probably for survival. You can be doing 75 MPH and have a 4 wheeler pickup or Hummer riding your rear bumper with its high-beam headlights flooding the interior of your car bullying you to get out of its way.
In Oregon we don't pay sales taxes. Here in California, most communities have sales taxes approaching 10%. That includes gasoline. So you pay for gas, federal road tax on gas, state road tax on gas, and then sales tax on the whole balance. So as gas prices go up, so do gasoline state and local sales tax of almost 10% on the dollar. So the same gas that would cost $3.75 in Oregon would cost over $4.00 in California - no matter what the gasoline company was charging. So a 20 gallon fill-up would cost you $8 more in CA.
There is more to like and hate about California. I lived here long enough. I look forward to my quiet and sereen life back in Oregon. I might never return to California if I didn't have so many family members living here. I count it my good fortune that I only have to travel back here two or three times a year.
JV