There are other means for a mentally challanged, disturbed, or needy person to be helped than to get involved in a life sucking, judging cult. Just because those type people are accepted in to the congregation doesn't mean those same people are not made to feel insufficient, scared of deamons around each corner, or treated badly by some of the congregation. It just isn't healthy. Escaping from reality is not a safe thing for ANYONE.
That said, of course individual JWs can be very loving and giving, and some will bend over backwards to help, but, this same thing can be said for the numerous religious people, agnostics, and athiests. The JW organization ( and other such mind control groups) lovebombing is deceptive, and just wrong. It does not last which is in and of itself damaging. It is a tool for recruitment but the ignorant people do not understand that. ( Highly intelligent, emotionally needy people or mentally challanged people alike.)
I love my JW raised husband, but hate the JW mindset, and the organization looming in his mind at the ready to pounce on any vulnerability for him to give himself over to the WT. To me, it's like living with a cancer in remission. Just waiting... Insidious, decietful and so damaging. Phyiscally out for nearly 30 years but mentally he was still trapped, and I was so ignorant and nieve about it all. It is so very sad not to be able to plan on the future with him, not knowing when the tide might turn, not to feel the marriage is safe.
My goal is to inform those who are not aware of what the JW are. To help educate the public about the dangerous nature of this mind control organization, and the stranglehold it has on so many, even if they are inactive. I want to help at least one person not to be fooled into in a situation like me, in a marriage with a child without really knowing the real nature of the teachings, and the full hold the WT has on a still "mentally in" JW ( baptised or not).