Do they realize how stupid they look?

by jam 21 Replies latest jw friends

  • jam
    jam

    A few years ago my aunt(my mom only living sibling)

    invited me my brothers and sister for dinner. My mom had

    died and my aunt was the last of our aunts and uncles.

    Her intention, we stay in contact. So she set the date and

    we all accepted. One brother his wife are JWs, one sister and

    her husband JW,s( both elders). My aunt did not inform us

    she invited them also. My JW sister and her husband decline (for

    what reason I do not know). My aunt did not tell them I was

    invited. My aunt had heard some talk from my mom about the

    shunning, but she did not understand the depth of shunning.

    So we arrive( my wife and I, sister and two brothers and wives), my

    Brother and wife( JW) sitting in the living room, looks up and

    see me come in, the expression on their face (love it).

    Anyway they exchanged small talk with my Brothers and sister and

    my aunt and her daughters.

    Now time for dinner, they sat there not touching A bite, not hungry.

    My sister-in-law(JW) known as A big eater, you could hear her

    stomach calling out. It was so funny. My aunt and her daughters could

    not beleive what was happening. This was the first time they had

    witness the shunning.

    Of course they left early, and they had the nerve to ask for A doggie

    bag.

  • rebel8
    rebel8

    Oh wow.

    I can't help but LOL at the doggie bag request. Cheap to the last! But wait, wouldn't that be the same as eating Christmas candy leftovers?

  • ziddina
    ziddina

    Gooooood grief....

    I hope they enjoyed their cold, congealed meal later on...

    "Doggie" bag for the dog-like slaves of the Watchtower Corporation... I don't quite mean that to be as harsh as it sounds, but....

    It would have been better still, if you or someone else had brought some "worldly" person along, to observe that weird and cold, calloused behavior for themselves...

  • jam
    jam

    Reel8, yes cheap O. I got A kick out of it. I raved about

    how delicious the steak and lobster was and my wife

    pick up what I was doing, so she got into the act. This

    aunt ( that side of the family are very well off), so when

    they give A function it,s an elaborate event.

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    well that was absolutely disrespectful to the host. They were invited and should respect that. Sitting there not eating because some family members don't go to the same church?

    I've had to sit at the table accross from some relatives I would normally not having dealings with. I respect the host and do my best to dodge the pot shots that sometimes occur.

    What a fine witness they presented

  • jam
    jam

    Ziddina; My aunt and her daughters have spread the word.

    After my JW,s brother and his wife left, my aunt told us

    she will never invite them again, it hurt her. This is the kicker,

    my JW brother call my sister the nexy day and told , please

    do not invite me to any other family function. He was so upset

    with her and my brothers. She tried to explain, we did not

    know you guys was coming.

  • jam
    jam

    Wha happened: you are right, just down right rude.

    They had waited all day for that meal, I know my sister-

    in-law, she loves food I mean she loves food.

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    This self imposed punishment was a joke. I'm sure they bragged about it that they did not share in the table of apostates.

  • moshe
    moshe

    JWs like to hurt others with their shunning and it is a real blow to their ego, when they end up hurting only themselves. Thanks for the story .

  • EntirelyPossible
    EntirelyPossible

    JWs like to hurt others with their shunning and it is a real blow to their ego, when they end up hurting only themselves.

    That's how they get to be persecuted, man. "Wow, we were so persecuted, Satan tried to tempt us into eating steak and lobster with an apostate, we showed them by getting a doggie bag!"

    What knuckleheads.

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