It looks like you may have a "yo-yo girl" on your hands. The kind that can never make up their mind about anything. If so, you are setting yourself up for a lot of pain and heartache.
They will get real close and tell you that they love you, then back off and leave you hanging. Then you are crushed and getting better, and all of a sudden they come back into your life like a tornado and do even worse damage. I would leave it alone.
My yo-yo really messed my mind up in a 4 year relationship/non-relationship. I am going to counseling to help me get over some of the issues of abandonment stemming from that.
Run Forrest, Run!
JK