Where's Danny and Rocky, in all of this?
Wouldn't it be better for Tina to get some real-life help?
by Valentine 90 Replies latest jw friends
Where's Danny and Rocky, in all of this?
Wouldn't it be better for Tina to get some real-life help?
just say you care right now-nothing else.......please
You don't know me (I am pretty new here), but I care and I am holding you up in prayer right now.
Love,
Marjorie
Valentine,
I'm sure you dontknow me either, and I dont know what's bothering you....
I just hate to see someone hurting so much.
If you need someone to talk to, I'm here!
I pray your pain eases.
Tina
My big sistah I love ya and I am here for you. It is strange how all of the sudden we are walking down the road and life hits us with a memory and we are drawn back into our grief. If I can do anything let me know. Please pay no mind to what Prisca said. She is lower than horse shit for even coming in here and posting a negative comment after your request.
((((((TINABEEENABOBEENA))))))) It will look better tomorrow
wendy
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Prisca
You pathetic fool. You have just shown what a heartless woman you are. Please edit your comment and keep your face away from this thread. Is your life so miserable and sorry that you have to impose yourself on others? Get a life bitch!
wendy
"I need you tonight my friends, Please"
Prisca, you and I have not exchanged words that I can recall. But I wonder what compelled you to reply as you did to this obvious plea for help. Can I lend you a few dollars (or the Australian equivalent) to buy a blow-torch to thaw out your heart? Is there any possible reason for you to exhibit such harshness to a person in such pain? Does your animosity run so deep?
Whatever demons you are dealing with, I sincerely hope you heal. I can only imagine great suffering in your own past would cause you to act with such coldness.
Others have called you names...I will not resort to such. Please, think about how you might feel if you were in a similar situation.
And as for "real-life help"....this, my Dear, is as real as it gets. I am Tina's real friend, so is Wendy, so is Julie, so are many others. Some of you have offered me "real-life help" and I don't know where I'd be without it. What does "real" mean to you, Prisca?
Wasa...shaking her weary head.
Wassa,
You are far better than I. When I first read this thread I was overcome with emotion for Tina. As I happened upon Prisca's comments I was overcome with another emotion. Usually I can ignore the ignorant woman. I realize that she must have many problems with her own personal life in order to act like this. But after such a heart wrenching request from Tina she still had to jump in and jab at her.
In most situations I try to stay open to all possiblities. Yet I have for months tried to figure out how Prisca can act as she does and think that it is okay. Tonight was the culmination of my generalized disgust for the woman. Many times I have kept my mouth shut, or ignored her behavior. And trust me "bitch" was not the only obscenity I uttered.
I am glad that you were able to come in here and try to rationalize with her. I will not ever again, she has proven that she is unworthy of my time or effort.
wendy
Tina,
I guess you are feeling somewhat better, since you posted a funny on another thread about an hour ago. That's good.
I think it would be a good thing if you went back and read the masterful thread you started, "10 nutty beliefs". That might help you. I know it always helps me when I think or talk about those ideas.
Please explain how I have been "heartless"? And what is wrong with suggesting that Tina gets some real life help? After all, we live in a REAL world, with REAL people. I honestly think it's time that Tina got some REAL help with dealing with her first husband's death. After all, it happened 20-odd years ago, did it not? If she is as knowledgeable about mental health as she makes out, then she'd have the sense to go and get some counselling to help her deal with it.
BTW, I am not a heartless bitch who has never experienced what it is like to see someone you love die in front of you. I have, and I had the right resources to help me cope.
Tina, with all respect, please get some counselling.
Prisca,
I don't know all the details regarding the death of Tina's husband, but if it was 20 years ago, and she still has this much pain, she really should get some therapy.
My father died 22 years ago. My mother died 15 years ago. My wife's younger sister died 2 years ago. My younger cousin died 4 years ago. It was all difficult, but we all have to go on with life.
Tina, my heart goes out to you. HANG IN THERE!!! {{{{{{HUGSSSS}}}}}
Boozy
p.s.Sometimes, the words and heartfelt concerns of those we know can go alot further than the best of professionals, especially if our needs are short-lived.