she has 4 kids. The father of her kids sees them every two weeks. I am not sure if it is a good idea for me to ask her out. I need your input. Thanks!
I am tempted to ask 25 year old very pretty lady out but.....
by Iamallcool 31 Replies latest jw friends
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snare&racket
Do you like her?
Yes = Go for it
No = Don't
Next on Dating with Snare... "Why do women like clean shoes on a man ?"
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james_woods
Three words: READY. MADE. FAMILY.
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JeffT
Depends on whether or not she's looking for a fifth child. You might make the perfect big brother, or possibly a little brother depending on the maturity level of the children she already has.
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GOrwell
4 kids at 25? sweet lord, that's a huge lack of BC right there...
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Slidin Fast
Accoding to Awake it takes seven years fo a step family to stabilise so GO FOR IT.
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outsmartthesystem
How old are you?
R U ready for a family?
Remember....in this situation....there is no "family planning". You will be diving head first into a circus. don't take that the wrong way either. I refer to the "circus" at my house very affectionately. But it is indeed a circus. With 4 small children....on top of the demands of every day life....there won't be a whole lot of "romance" time.
At this point in my life, I love children. But I had mine one at a time and became accustomed to it. Going from 0 to 4 would have floored me.
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NeonMadman
The nice part about not being a JW is that you don't have to decide whether you want to marry someone before you ask them for a date. You are allowed to take this young woman out a few times, get to know her, and then, when you know both her and her circumstances better, you can both make a decision whether to continue or stop.
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minimus
don't do it.
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james_woods
^^ What minimus said.