Go get yourself another girl...marriage is hard enough...throw in 4 kids and i feel you'll be pulling your hair out.
I think it would be wise for her to marry a man also with kids.
I am tempted to ask 25 year old very pretty lady out but.....
by Iamallcool 31 Replies latest jw friends
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heathen
holy smokes these guys got you in holy wed lock , apparently you just want a date so why not give it a try ? Don't commit until you're sure hubby is paying child support .
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JeffT
heathen
I'm not suggesting marriage. Having her adopt him seems more appropriate.
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still thinking
lamallcool at the doctors....
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Broken Promises
LOL @ Still
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Iamallcool
Still Thinking, here is my facial expression. It is not me in the pic but you get the idea. You are jumping to the wrong conclusions. I will leave it at that.
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Aussie Oz
Know what you do not want first,
I never dated women with young kids no matter how cute or lovely or chemistry. I did not want to spend more time with another womans kids than i could my own, never wanted to start a second family either.
what i am trying to say, if you know you are not ready for kids, or 'just don't know', well, i would say don't do it. Its a hell of a way to find out you are not ready.
Oz
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OnTheWayOut
It sounds like she's easy and loose with the birth control. Ask her out, bring a condom. Enjoy.
Repeat if it was fun. But after hitting it a few times, tell her that you are not able to handle the role of step-dad.
See, you and she can both have fun.
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still thinking
LOL lamallcool....that's the same expression I had on my face when I read your post about doing the police check on the 'other' lady you wanted to ask out.
Have you done a check on this one yet?
Seriously though. If you like someone, ask them out...what have you got to loose just asking someone out? It's not like you are going to get married in a week. I think you take asking someone out too seriously. It's just a date. After the date you can decide (based on the experience) if you want to ask them out again................. Then marry them....LOL
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Sheep2slaughter
Sorry dude but 4 kids and a step family is a huge mountain to climb starting in a deep hole.