I don't claim that believers are unable to think critically about certain things, but one thing I have learned from this board, is they don't think critically about their belief. But it is offensive to say so---and yet---that is what I have seen. I was that way once also, but have learned a great deal about who I used to be by watching believers now. I have said repeatedly that thinking becomes very liquid, forming and reforming to make room for belief. That's not something that can be done with other issues---but always with belief it is an option. I have found it fascinating, frustrating, amusing, and inevitable. Again, to say so can be taken as an insult, but it's simply an observation.
My Watchtower days were not connected to personal experience. That was the fantasy, not my current belief. To call my belief a fantasy now is an insult to me because I have worked hard in order to call it something substantial. It's based on my actual experience rather than the words of someone else. You would do well to be cautious of whom you tell tha you "used to be like them." You are basically saying they are still under a spell which will probably put off anybody.
The Watchtower was the spell, because their ideas crumble under critical thinking. Extracurricular activity required. However, after casting aside absolutism I have found something that is concrete to me. The critical thinking process is still there, it's just not as rigid. Personal preference has set in. Personality normalized.
If your best friend gets enough courage to tell you that she was abducted by aliens when she was little your response is important. For one, your friend trusts you enough to tell you something that will obviously make her look is crazy. She knows this. However, what if you choose to "default to critical thinking" right there and then? You could say it was all just in her mind. This could damage your friend so much so that she feels bad about telling unexplained stories to anyone. It's interesting how we act as a society. What was identified by an official public servent of Arizona as some sort of immense floating object 1997 called the Pheonix Lights is overshadowed by a slew of agendized news. Crazy is overdone. Where's Mulder? The truth is out there. Like the one ring laid at the bottom of a riverbed unstirred, until chance came and started something into motion that ended in the prosperity of all things. At one point a large spider was required to be slain.
The answer is 42, in the end. And the dolphins are going to fly into space:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR9JX2fRk3c&feature=fvst
-Sab