Howdy larc,
Seems like it's just you and me, eh? Well, since my class is into some studies which have a direct bearing on my childhood & jw 30 yr experience - it's really interesting - I reread your Social Influence thread - which we studying now.
In the post to Nathan, I mentioned that about 75% benefit from Psychotherapy. I would like to add that about 20% do not benefit, and about 5% are harmed by the experience. These numbers are based on meta-analytic studies that have been conducted since 1980. - larc
After a lecture by a Psychiatrist one night, he entertained questions. I stood & asked "How does one know he's getting a GOOD therapist?" Uhh, Uhhh, Uhhhh was the answer - as a good portion of the group was therapists. You're answer, btw, was the same as my professor's answer to another classmate with this same question. Actually, he said "Generally, you get what you pay for." Because it came up that Psychologists & psychiatrists cost a heck of a lot more per 50 minutes than therapists.
It's also interesting that I've read that the average person seeking therapy will go to at least 3 professionals before they find someone they can be comfortable with. I concur.
Each therapist I went to had a psychatrist as backup - particularily for meds. The first woman I went to - I liked her, she has a good background with child abuse, however, I was out of her range.
The third therapist was exceptional - not in her high intelligence or insight (which I assume she had) but because of her ability to make me comfortable, centered, and to give me space.
The second therapist was the ringer - high control issues, dominance of patient & situation, her ego was unbelievable. I was needy at the time, head reeling from different issues, I was under her control for some time. It cost me a lot in pain, time, & money. I stopped all therapy after her for several years.....as I was furious. Btw, this Jehovah's Witness woman therapist practiced in the vincinity of Ventura, CA in 80's moving to Boca Raton FL in 90's. Had quite a jw following for patients. Virginia M.
Interestingly enough, all the above women had the same qualifications. RN, with ongoing studies in Drugs & Alcohol, Family, and child abuse.
I didn't like any of the male psychiatrists I saw. Just could not relate to them.
Another intersting point is that many serious child abuse victims will most likely be misdiagnosed several times before the underlying problem is figured out. I know I was - didn't realize that fact until one therapist actually had me recount my experiences with doctors.
Btw, I read your post above - please be aware you're talking to a "Psych 101" person. Couldn't make heads or tails out of the last part.......but I assume that's what happens to a professional when he gets into his work, eh?
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