Wow! I think I have to agree w/a friend of mine, who said 'if elder's wives knew about these things, their husbands would not be elders".... Wives are more practical... They would say "YOU are OUT OF YOUR MIND!"
Why? hmmm... Let's read paragraph 14.... "In some cases, elders will form a judicial committee to handle alleged wrongdoing that may also constitute a violation of criminal law ( e.g. murder, rape, child abuse, fraud, theft, assult).
OK, so do wives want their husbands becoming involved, or "judiciial", in murder cases? ARE there murderers amongst us? What happens if the murderer gets mad at you?
Plus, just think about losing your house, your income, your everything because you get involved in this "litigious" type of anything with a committee. The Society has warned them...or shall we say, given them "due notice"... and they will drop you faster than a hot plate. However, the "Society" has plenty of lawyers (and money) to help themselves deal with this 'proud, greedy, litigious' 'complex society' we live in.
That is why the "Christian Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses" tell them not to discuss things with their wives.... They would have no more elders.