As I said, HOL, this guy did not suddenly become abusive, in my experience. Any individual or group that came between him and the control he felt he had over this woman would have set him off. I hope my comments did not imply that anyone there should have tried to restrain him...no training. My husband said he was told to call the police if such a situation came up at the KH and get as many people to safety, safely. This was a terrible thing and I know other individuals and groups think it is the godly thing to stay with an abusive husband. Just like pedophiles can be found in other religious groups, secular organizations, etc.
Blondie