Thanks for the great replies ! Worked all last night, finally have a little time to reply.
CULT CLASSIC- Very true, I agree- freedom does not equate with being a JW, that's why the article is so ironic ! LOL ! And the guilt the WT society put on us about how we had sex was incredibly controlling. Like yourself, I was always being watched, it was disturbing indeed.
BREAKFAST of CHAMPIONS- So true- WT society tells Witnesses not to even trust their own heart in order to keep them feeling so messed up inside that they can't think straight and makes them rely more and hang on every GB word. I try not to get too worked up when I write this stuff, but yes indeed, it does a number on your blood pressure. Warning well taken !
CARLA- Good point you make that the WT societys entire teachings are based on fear, guilt, and works, so by isolating themselves into this tight nit secret society they alienate everybody else outside the Witnesses and reinforce that indeed, yes, they are a dangerous mind control cult.
WT WIZARD- Like yourself, I too feel much more freedom in the REAL world outside of JW land. It's so much less pressure !
LONG HAIR GAL- Very good point you bring up that if the WT society honestly layed the cards on the table for prospective converts at the start and didn't sugar coat all the information- it's doubtful ANYBODY would join the Witnesses. Thus one reason I believe they started printing TWO versions of the WT magazine a few years ago - to soft pedal the message to new converts, then bring the axe down on them with the JW only WT once they get baptized at WT studys. And indeed the WT society doesn't encourage people to be close to each other as Witnesses, thus the statement it's not a " social club ". WT society really seeks to conquer and divide families actually. And create obedient, programmed robots. Personally I feel a hell of a lot safer around non-Witnesses myself.
SIMON 17- I'll have to read " The Fountainhead " , sounds very interesting. Thanks for the suggestion.
FINKELSTEIN- Good point, I feel the WT society uses all that oppression not only to keep JW's in controlled lock down mode, but as you say to promote a fickle, imaginary goody two shoes image to the outside public thus duping prospective converts so they are none the wiser about what REALLY goes on behind closed doors !
Your comment, " religion is really about power, money, and control ". Man, you've got that right ! And they use manipulation in order to KEEP and MAINTAIN that power , money, and control over JW members !
SLIMBOYFAT- Thanks for the good advice on my formatting. I'll take that advice and use it on my next thread. To make it more understandable.
CLARITY- Very true the WT society keeps JWs on a roller coaster their entire life. They never know if they are coming or going so true. I'm glad we got out too sis.
VM 44- Indeed, I think there WAS a big problem with Bethelites ripping off fellow Bethelites ! Good point !
NUGGET- So true what you say in how the WT society tries to portray ALL non-Witnesses as thugs, untrustworthy and evil. Yet non-Witnesses DO have the ability to use their own critical thinking skills- something Witnesses are not allowed to do. JWs are really captives of a concept without any freedom whatsoever.
FOLLOWEDMYHEART- Exactly. The WT society sets itself up as the ONLY entity that can be trusted. By using guilt and fear to control Witnesses they scare the Be-Jesus out of them to even TRY trusting anybody on the outside of the organization. So manipulative and controlling !
QUENDI- I'm glad you are not going back. You'd just lose your freedom Quendi. It definitely WAS a spiritual hell being a Witness and I share your hopes that many more escape the imprisonment of WT slavery.
CACKY- I wonder about the effect of this yo-yo information on my JW daughters as well. All it can possibly do is mess their minds up even more and confuse them even more ! Very sad.
BU2B- You nailed it- WT society is all about enslavement, not freedom. It's amazing how 7 men on the GB can control and mesmerize 7 million Jehovah's Witnesses, isn't it ? Crazy.
RETROVIRUS- The WT society tells it's members to comply with laws of the land if it doesn't interfere with God's laws. But more realistically the WT society tells it's members to comply with the laws of the land if it doesn't interfere with the WT society's financial plans for the future, otherwise elders are to uphold WT policies , even if unlawful, if it's to the benefit of the billion $$$ corporate interests of the WT society. Money is the bottom line. It's truly a criminal organization.
BILLY the EX-BETHELITE- What a scary picture ! But accurately describes how controlled and bound up JW's are ! Peace out, Mr. Flipper