orangefatcat - your post could have been written by me. It is a drastic step to take to be free. I knew he would never ever leave me alone without that one act of sex. So I did it. And got my freedom
But there was a price to pay. My conscience. I have over the years come to terms with the fact that the religion and he left me little choice. Even when we tried the separation theing he still insisted on coming over for his "due" (how come they just can't say sex?
He actually did say he would frogive me and take me back if I wanted. Nope no way no how. The price I paid was huge and there is no way I was going to try my luck a second time. I had my freedom and was keeping it. Beside he always remembered every little thing I did that made him displeased - there is no way he would really be able to get past this one. I was outta there.
Would I recommend it? No not really - unless you are married to a nutcase that just won't leave you alone to go live your life.
Rejoice in the healing and not in the pain.
Rejoice in the challenge overcome and not in the past hurts.
Rejoice in the present - full of love and joy.
Rejoice in the future for it is filled with new horizons yet to be explored. - Lee Marsh 2002