Well to some, being single may be a mystery.
But to those that are selecting a marriage mate they are more aware of why that person is still single, i.e "Loser, pervert, creeps you out, unemployable, sh#t disturber etc".
Some just don't get it. But, who has the guts to really tell that person the truth as to why they should still be single. It's better to tell them that they possess a gift. A Consolation gift.