I truly believe the posts that have been written here, there is alot of very good points made by everyone. I would like to add a point, I really believe any organization that brings divisions amongst family and friends is truly the wrong one. How many have lost loved ones and many,many good friends through these divisions. If you get df or leave on your own accord, then many people shun you, turn their backs on you. Someone said once, blood is thicker than water, well if this statement is true, then where is the proof. I thought in my heart of hearts that nothing ever should every seperate, or be the cause to seperate families. The truth has taught me that all it does is cause deeper pain within a person. So many of us have lost out on, and miss the love they once had from our families, son, daughters, husband, wives etc. This is truly a sad sad thing. WHERE HAS TRUE LOVE GONE? I mean to this day, I still feel the lose, some days stronger than others. When you grow up with a brother or sister as an example, then you leave the org. or are put out, you still have the memories from childhood, and nothing I believe can erase such memories. Now you have nothing but memories, this is sometimes to overwhelming for me because all I ever want is the normal life, the family life I was forced to leave behind. Yes you can surely go on and make new friends and start fresh so to speak, but what's left behind is still in your head and heart. I cry for the lose of a sister, but feel she probably doesn.t give to hoots about how my life is, because if she did, she would truly be apart of my life now.