I agree with you tresdecu and it's frustrating.
If it was announced that the C.O. arrangement and 3 day district conventions were being discontinued, or even the new smaller magazines,or changing the way they do the preaching work - Witnesses would be excited about it - it would mean that Jehovah is speeding things up and we're closer to the end.
The Sparlock video - every witness that I've spoken to so far thinks its fabulous.
I don't know any Witnesses that know anything about the Candice Conti case. My family only knows about it because I brought it up, and even then my mom has been careful to not look too much into it. At the very worst, they believe it's Satan trying to smear Jehovah's name.
And Witnesses are impossible to reason with. I was having a conversation with a good friend because she's been "worried" about me, and basically she said what I think is the opinion of every witness: Even if there are things that are wrong and things you don't agree with, you stay for the good that IS there. (And this is someone who disagrees with a lot of things - she has no problem with gay people, loves tattoos, etc)
I was always hoping that with the internet and easy access to information that we have today, these things would create more of a stir than they have.
To me, it's not so much what affects the big guys at the top in a private room, but the effect things have on the average publisher. The religion needs to start losing major numbers. It's very disheartening to see things continuing on as they have in spite of what are otherwise big issues.
I would like to see them completely do away with the 1914 doctrine and choose another date for the start of Jesus reign. Or do away with the earthly hope. I think those kinds of doctrinal changes would be major enough to really wake people up.
Or for a member of the Governing Body to be caught in a major, embarrassing, public scandal.
I don't know Cedars, I think it will take a long time for the financial cost of child abuse lawsuits to crumble the Watchtower. As much as I would love to see it happen.