I thought it was a small but effective display that shows others the intensity of JW belief, even to the point of choosing the Watchtower and their appearance in it over their children.
Agreed. It sure does. I don't know what it would be like to choose a religion over one's own children.
On the other hand, imagine the huge sense of empowerment this young man may already be experiencing from coming this far in his life even without parental approval and support. Wow - that's significant.
Sure, I wouldn't wish him to go through this sort of experience just to become stronger - but given that he is going through this experience, what a shame not to learn valuable lessons about self-reliance and self-compassion rather than his 'creating' a story of deprivation and victimhood. Give me muscle over moaning anyday.