My wife does the same thing. I'm just patiently waiting for any glimmer of light to show through where she would question anything about WT indoctrination.
Yeah, my wife claims proclaims all of the WT research she does to. But what good is this research when you're condition to only research documents provided to you by the Borg. Of course, you're gonna come to the conclusion they would want you to.
It's a shame that you have to suffer through her making her move away from you before you will be free of the borg though. My wife has come to the conclusion that although she knows I love her and will support her, that I will not be coerced or intimidated by her or any fast talking elder when it comes to what I want to do where religion or anything else is concerned. This is MY LIFE, and I will not be a slave to anything or anybody through the guilt trip and mind control techniques used by heavy handed elders under the guise of shepherding or having my best interest at heart. This may come off as being macho, but, I am a "grown ass man" capable of making and living with my own decisions. Yeah, I had the blinders put on me by being baptised but if one day they choose to come after me for a df'ing, she'd better weigh very carefully what I've done and continue to do for her and what those elders are trying to do and choose sides very carefully. I have no intention of subjecting myself to any of their bullshit rules or procedures. If I sense that she's unhappy and planning an escape, although I love her I'm not inclined to sitting around waiting for it to happen like you. I'll be very pre-emptive to safeguard my happiness should she choose to turn on me and I know she subconsciously knows this. I've conditioned her to when I'm approached by elders that it's probably best for her to do most of the talking if she doesn't want me to embarrass them when they get nosy about MY activities. I've already "checked" a couple of elders in her presence when they've approached me this way.
I'm very sorry that things are turning out the way the are for you. You can be sure that she's being encouraged by the Nazi Elder Police arm of the WTBTS. When you're finally free, I hope you find whatever happiness you're looking for in the real world.