Thanks for all your comments. I'm just checking in quick before I head out to visit the family. All your thoughts and observations are very helpful.
I can talk with my dad pretty easily about all of this. Mom will be more a matter of what mood she's in. Falcon mentioned the Conti case, which was something that really steamed mom with WT. She knows that the way WT is handling things like this is all wrong. JWs should call the police, period. And she doesn't agree with WT discouraging "higher education." So, although she's a "believer", she's not the 100% Kool-Aid drinker she used to be.
And normally, I'm in a pretty good position to steer clear of JW subjects with my parents, but I do bring things up for the sake of a fading sibling. Just enough of these JW subjects along with unconditional love toward our parents seems to be keeping for folks less culty. They're slowly becoming more concerned about doing things the "right way" rather than the "WT way".
I make it a point to make it clear to the parents that although I'm "inactive", I'm not terribly bitter or angry with them. They see that they can't pressure me to return since they see my transformation from a depressed, stressed, life-going-nowhere-fast JW, to a happy, interesting, life-is-great son.
Thanks again for your comments here, as well as all the other threads. {{everybody}}