As it turned out, the folks were so happy to see me that almost nothing JW came up the whole time. Mom mentioned to me that Br. Lazya$s in their congregation just lost another job because he kept taking days off for no good excuse. The only WT litteratrash I saw were the magazines in the bathroom. As I've said before, those ragazines have a laxative effect. All I have to do is read about half a farticle and I feel the urge to go.
I filled them in on everything going on with school. I'm crazy busy with classwork, professional societies, internship interviews. Again, I make it clear that I'm very happy with the direction my life is going, so they are happy for me, too.
So, I didn't bring up the "new light" to Mom, but I did tell Dad. Instead of being in any way adversarial or apostate-mentally-diseased-hostile, I started by asking, "Has Br. Knows-it-all told you the latest news from the Annual Meeting?"
Dad, "No."
So I told him the news in the order of my opening post. Dad agreed that they've got a lot of rewriting and reinterpretation to do to close all the holes in this mess. And I told him about the new GB member. His reaction was, "sheesh."
Black Sheep: "Get them to vigorously defend the old light ............ before they read the noo lite in an official publication or hear it at a convention. The more adamant they are, the better."
In this case, we had already talked about this exact subject and how WT had misused this illustration as a prophecy that was not making sense and would continue to be problematic for them. We also discussed the problem of 144,000 since there were way too many first century Christian martyrs and 19/20th century partakers for that to be literal. We've discussed flaws with their explanation of a first century GB.
Part of the foundation that I've laid with my parents is that I've made it clear that they don't need to bother defending these teachings to me or anybody. The way our relationship is, we don't raise our voices. We're all pretty good about keeping to facts apart from emotion and speculation. Regardless of who or where the questions come from, something that is true will be able to defend itself... ITSELF. And I've certainly been in that place where I'm trying to defend something JW that I don't agree with and that can't defend itself. And then WT comes out with a new interpretation that turns everything upside down, like they repeated changes to "generation." So why should I bother to defend something that's going to be 100% abandon by WT at any moment. Whatever is "truth" should be ready, willing, and able to defend itself.
Frankly, this hasn't resulted in my parents completely abandoning the KH. But they take longer vacations, and I suspect that they are giving less money to the cult. Most importantly, they seem to be happy and I don't detect any underlying tension. They go through all the JW motions, but I think they've made some kind of mental distancing from WT and the leadership.
We'll see what the future brings...