Good incisive point James - I agree!
Another poster said:
I'd like to see the official policy SDA's have on disfellowshiping/excommunication and whether there is still freedom to talk to the expelled person
Can I say one very annoying feature of the SDAs is how "waffly" their church policies are. At least the Watchtower makes its venom clear and known; flick open the Watchtower and there is an overtly judgmental view on almost anything they disapprove of. You are not left guessing.
By irritating contrast, I have read treatises and watched DVDs in which SDA leaders struggle with beads of spiritual sweat to please all sides of an issue and end up saying a variation of '6 of this and half a dozen of the other'. Yes, but what are your views, minister?
It is only much later as you ruminate over their tortured prose, that you realize they are very, very subtly putting down alternative views. Also, SDAs at heart are extremely "treacly" - prone to drive a point home by use of "aw shucks" stories of what speaks to them about how Jesus would have responded. Please - spare me the Adventists advertorials - kind of like, anyone who disagrees with us does not really know the Christ. Double please!
While I intensely dislike the mind set of the Watchtower's pompous arrogance, I at least have a "grudging"admiration for their ability to clearly nail their colours to the mast. Beats oozing, sticky 'everyone's-so-happy' treacle that informs much SDA discourse.