The GB keeps JWs too busy for them to stop and think.
As A JW You Never Have Time To Smell The Roses
by minimus 31 Replies latest jw friends
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Theocratic Sedition
lol, dont forget Billy Idol's Rebel Yell.
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compound complex
As a gardener, Min, I always took time to smell the roses!
BTW: Dr. Lowell Dixon told me when I went to see him in his office that a person who burns the candle at both ends isn't so bright. He was correct, of course, but most Bethelites do not have down time. On the rare occasion I took a weekend off from FOUR meetings and FS, I felt so guilty I couldn't stand it.
CoCo
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a watcher
This is not true unless YOU allow it to be true.
No adult is FORCED to take on more responsibility in the congregation.
YOU need to decide what you are able to do to serve Jehovah, and if you are asked to do more, JUST SAY NO!
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mrsjones5
Just say no...sounds like a drug campaign.
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ziddina
It was itentional on the part of the Watchtower Society. It's a typical tactic of cults - keep people busy, tired, too frazzled to stop and reflect or consider where their life is going and whether the cult is helping them or holding them back.
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perfect1
Watcher, your three eyes really suit you.
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Bangalore
From the August 1960 issue of the Kingdom Ministry.
Organized Social Entertainment.
1 From one locality it is reported that there is a regular arranging of social events, not at the Kingdom Hall where such sociabilities are prohibited, but in halls rented on the outside, and that to these events the brothers of not only one congregation but of others in the vicinity are invited. The motive for holding these parties is set forth as being to enable particularly the young folk of the congregations to get better acquainted with one another. In one district there seems to be a trend in this direction of holding large-scale social affairs, ostensibly to increase inter-congregational acquaintanceship and to enjoy together several hours of relaxation and and to do so in a safe way so that no worldliness or no worldly elements insinuate themselves.
2 The brothers responsible for such social gatherings on a large scale try to rationalize in behalf of the propriety of holding such social events. Some time ago it was even suggested to the Society that it ought to appoint in each congregation a servant of entertainment to arrange for and organize and supervise social engagements of this kind in the congregation, or in conjunction with other congregations. The Society then let it be known that it would not appoint any so-called servant of entertainment.
3 The servants authorized by the Word of God are appointed to serve the spiritual needs of the brothers. The same is true of the congregation Kingdom Hall. The fact is that the purpose of the entire congregation organization is to upbuild the brothers spiritually and to aid them in accomplishing the serious, highly important work that Jehovah God has commissioned us to do. Giving attention to these spiritual matters, therefore, leaves little time available for the arranging and holding of social events.
4 Also, if regular social events drag on through the night until after midnight and early into the morning of the next day the physical relaxation intended by these social events is counteracted by the fatigue the participants experience the succeeding day when they should be at their fittest to take care of their spiritual responsibilities in the field and at the service centers and at the Kingdom Hall. Social events easily open the way for love affairs and involve couples in difficulties. The wholesome atmosphere on these occasions, if held regularly, is liable to deteriorate.
5 Worldly elements whose interest is mainly in having a good social time with the opportunities that it affords for non-spiritual things are quite willing to attend such social functions, not primarily to get acquainted with spiritual people to be influenced spiritually. Such occasions are used by brothers to invite persons who can hardly be called reliable publishers, ostensibly, so to speak, to encourage them and to make them feel at home with the brothers, to show them that we are not strait-laced and do have good times among ourselves. It is reported that the participants in some cases not being satisfied, with what is served inside the rented hall go to the outside for particular refreshments and that some begin to be careless about their conduct and language, mistakenly feeling that Christian relaxation allows for such.
6 Hence the Society feels obliged to repeat that it is not in favor of such a trend and refuses to recognize or co-operate with any such appointment of a servant of entertainment or master of ceremonies for social gatherings of such kind. The Day is drawing near. For this reason the apostle says we are all the more to gather together, not for mere social pleasures, but to consider one another from a spiritual standpoint and to incite one another, not to sexual love, but to love of God and of neighbor and to incite to right works in harmony with our Christian commission and to make public declaration of our hope without wavering in order that others may be strengthened in the enjoyment of the same faith and -hope and may never waver. The place for thus gathering together all the more so because the day is drawing near is the Kingdom Hall, where all those attending service centers during the week may gather.
7 Also in the case of neighboring congregations, the place for the members thereof to get acquainted with the brothers in other congregations is at the circuit assemblies and the district assemblies. The purpose of such assemblies is not physical and mental relaxation. It is true that these assemblies enable us to get acquainted with many friends we never knew before, but that is not the prime objective. The announced purpose strictly adhered to is to school ourselves for better performance of our ministry in the future. Such assembly gatherings are a safe and wholesome place for us to get acquainted with one another and to engage in exercises that are profitable and edifying, helping us to redeem the time and to walk wisely because we are in the midst of this world and the days are wicked ones. It is because such assemblies rest upon a theocratic basis rather than a social. one that we are spiritually refreshed and renewed, and we are warned and safeguarded against the many dangers and wrong tendencies rampant in this world.
8 Overseers of congregations and their assistant servants are shepherds of the flock. They must pay attention to themselves and to the flock in a spiritual behalf. Consequently they will concentrate mainly upon providing for the spiritual needs of the congregation,attending to their assigned duties rather than diverting themselves to social affairs. The New World society of Jehovah's witnesses is no social club.
9 Let us, then, live now for the new world in a way that befits those who are witnesses of the Most High God, Jehovah, and imitators of his Son, Jesus Christ.
Bangalore
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Soledad
Wow the title of this thread reminded me of exactly this type of event while I was out in field service.
I'll never forget the day. It was a Saturday in June 1996, a beautiful early Summer day. The sky was bright blue and everything around was lush and beautiful.
I was in a group of about 15 publishers plus an elder and his family.
We arrived at a territory and everyone got out of their cars. We all parked in the general vicinity, at the bottom of a hill, and the houses we were to knock on were at the top of the hills.
As we are walking, I'm at the back. Out of the corner of my eye to the right I see a beautiful pink rose in full bloom. I stopped for maybe half a minute and looked at it. Then I looked at the sky. So beautiful. Then I looked at everyone walking ahead of me. They all had their heads down not looking at anything. They looked as though they were walking towards their death!
I said to myself "eff this! I'm leaving."
I turned right around and walked off in the opposite direction, towards a park. That's where I spent my Saturday morning. Watching the kids play, people play with their dogs, just enjoying life.
That was the beginning of the end for me. I stopped and smelled the rose.