Hey all, sorry I don't get to comment as much as some, but I appreciate all the welcomes! It's good to have somewhere to go to read comments of others who really understand what I'm going through. I'm going about things quietly, my hubby is very good to talk to, is not "uber dub" like my parents so can have a rational conversation with him.
So tired emotionally right now, sorry if I don't post much, I am so thankful for everyone who post helpful info here. I'll continue to contribute whenever I feel I have something useful to add.
thankyou, and love to you all