Cognac>>>>>
"I don't want to break up the marriage".
Girl...You are not the one playing around.
Your sweet children, 1 and 3, of course deserve the Best Daddy in the world. Their very own Daddy would be the best, if he were the best.
All of us females can thank our theocratic brothers for informing us that ALL guys wank. I did not know that. Wanking = OK. Emailing/flirting with females while married = NOT OK.
I will be thinking of you. (Holding hand over internet) It is so unfair. Most normal guys would love to have a young wife and family, whether of the same religious persuasion, or not.
Try to be a pillar when around your chilldren. Be strong young (former) sister. You are not alone. We are here for you.
Just Lois