My Husband Said "Victims Of Pedophiles Come Forward Soon, Not Fifteen Or Thirty Years Later!" Right?

by AuntConnie 72 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

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  caliber

  Dissociative Disorders is the Result Of Trauma....((((((( (((((((((((((((((AC)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  This defense mechanism does not erase these thoughts, but rather separates them

  I think compassion is in order
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  FlyingHighNow

  Cal, you need to go back and read AC's initial posts. AC is a leg puller. Don't get sucked in.
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  rebel8

  Simply put, a victim's actions do not alleviate the guilt of the criminal in any way, shape or form. These are just rationalizations.
  
  Forgive yourself, accept the injuries you experience as a victim, and place the blame where it belongs.
  
  It's interesting you keep claiming therapists are doing it wrong. Perhaps you should re-examine your assumptions. Your method is not working well for you--clinging to your ineffective method is going to yield you the same results you always get.
  
  What you're posting here is convoluted logic to eliminate the criminal's guilt for his own actions. That's sick, honey.

  Try a professional's way of getting well...healing is not an easy task, but it's easier and quicker than this unproductive, harmful thing you're doing to yourself.

  This sick behavior is not your fault, but your recovery is your responsibility.

  Best wishes in your journey.