Regular sex? That's not wild or crazy at all...
Did YOU Go A Bit Wild or Crazy When You Left The "Truth"?
by minimus 57 Replies latest jw friends
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dazed but not confused
No it was funny how he wrote it. "I tried the sex thing". Maybe it just sounded funnier in my head. Like one and done?
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dazed but not confused
Like "Oh yeah, I tried cocaine once. Im good now." Again I think it sounded better in my heard
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sd-7
I couldn't function normally without regular sex. Things settled down after that? Are you sure you did it right? lol
Well, mainly things settled down by necessity. I married the second person I had sex with, as I felt guilty and still wasn't really ready to be going down that road, and then the sex gradually started not being had after the whole judicial committee thing, until...it's starting to look like it may never happen again.
So I'm guessing that means I didn't do it right...
--sd-7
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Pterist
Yes, for years. but it never brought lasting pleasure, just guilt and an aimless life.
So happy, I met my new wife (after my late wife of 20 years died to cancer), who brought me back to a renewed personal relationship with Christ Jesus. Was so happy to be forgiven and given a second chance.
I can say now I'm a sinner saved by grace ! Not having a JW legalistic righteousness but the gift of HIS righteousness to come into the presence of a Holy God. His presence has changed and continues to change the Adamic sinful nature within me, with seasons of the peace that surpasses all understanding. A day in your presence Lord is better than a thousand elsewhere Psalms 84:10. come to him today, if you are called, he promises to witness to you, if you accept the new life that is in his Son. 1 John 5:9-12.
Shalom
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SophieG
FIRST ESCAPE: (late teens) I did a lot of stuff because I have a curious nature. I did almost every drug, except for the ones that you use syringes. I can still count on one hand how many sexual partners I’ve had, of both sexes. Partied like it was 1999 (it was)…and I eventually blew out.
SECOND ESCAPE: I am older now and way more mellower…I don’t do drugs. I don’t sleep around at all. Drink moderately. Life now is about enjoying it, and making great memories to supplement the 20 years I lost to the WTBS.
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sd-7
Regular sex? That's not wild or crazy at all...
Well, there was a short time where it was more than regular, probably more interesting during pregnancy than any other time, to be honest, but I could probably chart it out.
Just before marriage & judicial committee: Regular
After judicial committee: Once a month for several months
After separation and reuniting, then pregnancy: Regular
After childbirth, until present (11 months, 1 week): Non-existent, save one painful attempt 2 months ago (Bane quote: "It would be extremely painful. For you.")
But I'll be derailing this thread and ending up redefining what being a doormat is all about if I keep discussing it. But it's safe to say that things never really got all that wild. I mean, I guess if that first woman had gotten pulled over for drinking and driving, it might've gotten crazy, but otherwise, nothing more of the wild 'n crazy nature to speak of there.
--sd-7
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undercover
Swoosh... Right over y'all's heads...
"regular" as in plain ole everyday vs kinky, perverted, porn movie worthy
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dazed but not confused
lol sd-7
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Pink sapphire
Definitely. Made up for a lot of lost time, enjoyed every minute. No regrets, no conscience and better still no JC!