Hey Problem Addict.
I have no regrets about how I handled this situation. And, I believe there is a BAN on higher education-there are numerous threads here with great scholarly work by people who can and do cite WT literature about this ban, and even in moments where someone does pursue an education they face consequences andthere are numerous threads about that to be found here too by simply searching the forum. So, in my opinion, a ban is an acurate statement.
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It is hard to think of it like this, but we can never be to over the top or throw our perceptions into our debates.
That sounds JW ish to me and I disagree. Having been through all of this, my perception, my life experience is the valid evidence. And, frankly, I did not initiate the conversation. I also made definitive statements, and to engage them the JW had to turn around in his seat to face me. I was actually passive but like all good JWs are taught to keep trying he would not give up. A little human emotion is more direct and understandable than a knowing cult smile and vacant eyes.
I am an attractive, put together person, not only am I not crazy or un balanced, I also do not APPEAR that way, especailly when headed to a date, when I have gone to the trouble to look my best. I speak and act like the cultured, well manered, over educated person I am.
Preaching to people- especially a captive audience on a bus, is an aggressive act which crosses peoples boundaries and makes them uncomfortable.
I added to that discomfort, but I dont feel the need for caution. My position was a defensive one, in response to a stranger imposing his poison litterature.
My authority in that situation is my perception, my experience. It is subjectivity which is powerful, because the Bible is not science.