Cofty,
Ok I see your angle and I agree to some extent, but we are talking about too different things. If I want to be a JW and don't want to be associated with you that is my right regardless of my reasons.
When it comes to parents and children... Well I hate to tell you that JW's do not have the monoploy on Asshole parenting. There are plenty of drunks that shun their children that don't approve of their parent's alcoholism. Do we ban malt liqour and scotch?
Seriously, you're taking the blame off the individual and putting it on some old crackers that print poorly written and mis-educated theology. Put it where it belongs on the individuals. No one is making them be a JW or submit to it's mind control. They are there voluntarily.
This seems to be a common theme here on JWN and in the WTBS, "controlling the thoughts/emotions/feelings of others".