If we are no longer JW, we are worldly, but yet we are treated worse than worldly. Why?
Because it's the standard set by the Watchtower itself.
In July 1992 the Watchtower said: "The obligation to hate lawlessness also applies to all activity by apostates. Our attitude toward apostates should be that of David, who declared: "Do I not hate those who are intensely hating you? (Psalms 139:21)"