Last night I was PM-ing on Facebook with an old JW girlfriend from 1969. She is no longer a witness and we are comparing notes.
She was telling me her JW husband said to her the 2nd time they had sex, "I'm only doing this for you."
She said he was such an inhibited and repressed person about intimacy they slept in separate bedrooms.
When she went to the elders about her marital partners they were much more interested in the sordid details of sexual positions, number of times performed, orgasm count, kinky requests, etc. that she was absolutely humiliated by it.
I was thinking to myself, "If we really knew what kind of hidden and secret lives most Jehovah's Witnesses live we might conclude they are all impaired, insane or ignorant."