Are you prepared to apologise even when it is not you fault?

by usualusername 31 Replies latest jw friends

  • moshe
    moshe
    Well it might be your fault to some degree,

    Iamallcool-- My former wife could have 30 orgasms in 30 minutes of sex-- I once had a girlfriend who would come in 15 seconds- stop, 15 more seconds, come again, stop, 15 more seconds come again, etc. She would apologize for coming so fast and finish me off with a BJ-- I often wondered why so many women are dead in bed--

    ( I analyze handwriting- PM me and I'll tell you what to look for)

  • SkyGreen
    SkyGreen

    Yes, in the "Im sorry that things are so tense between us... can we talk about it/make up now please? I miss you" way

    but not in the im so sorry i did wrong (even tho i didnt) way

    Just this weekend I bawled my eyes out to my husband and my mum (seperately) and said, Im so sorry that this hurts you, I hate that you are upset. I just cant be a hypocrite and remain active when I dont believe it all anymore.

    I am genuinely sad for their pain and stress, but im not sorry for my actions.

  • StoneWall
    StoneWall

    Are you prepared to apologise even when it is not you fault?

    Yes.

    I'm sorry your wife was cheating on you even though it wasn't with me.

    I tried to talk her out of it but she wouldn't listen.

    I'm sorry you had to find out about it on a public forum but someone had to tell you.

  • flipper
    flipper

    O.K. What the hell- you goaded me into it. I apologize for being here, being born. Mom & dad got it on and I had no control of that ! LOL ! So it's THEM that needs to apologize ! Nah, on second thought I ain't into that guilt $hit. No need to apologize if you don't need to or not your fault

  • SkyGreen
    SkyGreen

    moshe i took this off another thread but posting it here now - in some of your recent posts you sound like someone with a serious dislike for women in general. Im sorry if you have been hurt/manipulated in the past. We are not all like you say we are...Your comments are extremely offensive and hurtful to me as a woman, and Im sure Im not the only one here who feels that way. See posting guideline number 2 and please, think before you post. Best wishes to you. Sky

  • Glander
    Glander

    Hell no.

    I have been asked by third parties to do that very thing for the sake of peace. Funny, how they wouldn't ever consider eating shit themselves if they were not at fault.

  • Lore
    Lore

    Are you prepared to apologise even when it is not you fault?

    That depends on what I stand to gain.

  • ShirleyW
    ShirleyW

    HELL NO ! Will never happen

    Jam, good for you for sticking to your guns.

  • moshe
    moshe

    Skygreen--Complaint noted-- I love women, especially the honest ones. Cougars are really honest women- my son told me all about them when he was in his mid 20's.-- he never had to pay for any dates, either.

    Skygreen- I hope your family stays intact- you never know how JW spouses will react- nice one minute and then the next they take sides with the elders against you- anyway, you have a lot on your plate-- don't waste your time trying to read the motives of posters here--concentrate on you family.

    The only hurt I had was from my JW wife who stabbed me in the back. I was honest- I am always telling it like it is- even if true words aren't kind. Taking the road of honesty is the best path, IMO- in the end you do find happiness- a deserved happiness, not one that was gotten through trickery.

    You are an honest person- unlike some elders here who know it's a lie, but are still pretending to be good and loyal JWs- They don't see any problem with being deceptive.

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    A man has to be Joe McCarthy to be called ruthless. All a woman has to do is put you on hold.
    Marlo Thomas Read more

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