My WORST Convo experience was at the International Convention in Long Beach 2003. Like always, My congregation had to help with parking. Waking up at 6am, assisting with the parking for a influx of visitors and assigned congos was a big pain in the ass. The program would start a little after 9 and we were out in the blazing sun in the middle of summer till 10 parking cars. Since parking attendants were there early we would get a chance to get seats. But.....since there was SOOOOOO many people there for THIS Convention, the seat I had saved for myself ended being takened. I didn't even bother to look for it since there was a lot of people standing up at the balcony railings because of no seats. I HATED those Conventions and the STUPID parking arrangements!
Your worst convention experience.
by zeb 91 Replies latest jw experiences
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konceptual99
Last year enduring the 3 days as I was waking up. This years is going to be even worse but I may just bunk off loads of it.
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Julia Orwell
Go to the infirm area and sleep on the floor. I had cfs so that's what I did in a nice carpeted room full of old people.
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Band on the Run
My favorite was an international convention at Yankee Stadium in the early 1950s. Witnesses from other lands wore their native garb. I still have the very colorful photographs.
All the others would compete for the worst. Two stand out for revealing how bad the Witnesses are. My family travelled to Halifax, Nova Scotia for a convention. We were escaping the predominantly black and poor crowd. My father refused to feed us. We slept on the floor of some rental. Since we arrived at the site early, we sat close to the platform. I was eleven. Altho he had to know I was menstruating, my father refused to let me have my handbag. I was too ashamed at being female to demand it back. The back of my special dress was nothing but blood. My 3 year old sister was brushing the chair in front of her out of sheer bordeom. Mr. Bethelite in his 20s with total arrogance was overly friendly and had his hands all over a sister. Oh, she bagged a Bethelite. The only group I was forbidden to marry. He took his belt off and handed it to my mom so she could beat the living daylights out of a three year old. My mom was born-in when the org was very small. I was expectinga volcanic explosion. Finally, a Bethelite brother was going to get it. Deservedly so. She handed the belt back to him with a ton of assertiveness. He did not realize it but she had access to Knorr, Franz, Schroeder, etc more than he did.
The other worst one happened when I was fourteen. It was my last convention at Yankee Stadium. Freddie Franz spoke forever. On and on about very obscure scriptures. He failed to mention even one highlight of Christianity. The Beatles, school, and escaping to Manhattan had changed me in fundamental ways. Long before Kotex and tampon ads, he announced 1975. A key point was when Eve first menstruated. I sunk down into my chair. It was bad enough to have a "talk" with my mom. Freddie Franz is mentioning menstruation. I was totally appalled. In the past, I viewed him with great respect b/c he was such a towering intellectual, according to the Witnesses. His entire 1975 remarks opened my eyes to what an utter fool he was. Furthermore, anyone botheriing to listen to him voluntarily was a fool. Nevertheless, I was terrified of 1975. Despite college graduation, it was an awful year of a self-fulfilling prophecy. My mom said not to worry at all because she survived three dates certain in the past. My siblings and I were scared stiff. It was not good news. I could not return to Manhattan to get a bus home soon enough.
1975 reminded me of the Cold War, living a few miles from NYC. We had to practice air raid drills. There was intense propaganda against Russians when it was the Soviet Union. My body reacted with somatic symptoms. As we grew, however, we realized there was no need to worry. NYC was our salvation. All of us would die immediately. Hiding under a desk or an air raid shelter would not matter. I would die at Armageddon but so would almost everyone I respected.
These two worst ones are illustrative of different aspects of the Witnesses. One is cultural and the other is theological.
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Julia Orwell
That's a touching story. I always wondered what growing up a Jw would've been like, and thanks to this site I now have an idea. For me conventions were mostly a chance to socialise, but kids? Mega boredom? Pageantry for the teen girls with their latest outfits, but for every other kid? Sounds like torture.
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Band on the Run
I've noticed the repetition of self-important attendants. The church I currently attend had one very drunk usher. He was so abusive to a bunch of us one Christmas eve that I wrote a letter to the head priest on behalf of the others. Within two days, I had a personal apology from the priest in writing.
It turns out that this usher routinely annoys people and makes up his own rules as he abuses people. He rudely routed an older gentleman deeply in prayer. He even printed his own tickets for Easter so he could decide who would sit where, regardless of the fundraising efforts of the Cathedral staff. Despite my apology, he was a key usher until he died. No one was that upset when he died. He was a legend among the regulars. Once I called and asked how much money I had to donate to get a decent seat and not be bothered by him. So the woman who took the call heard about the legend. She thought she was the only one he terrorized.
So it happens in all religions.
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sooner7nc
Riding from Southern Oklahoma to Houston, Texas in the back of a 1973 Dodge Challenger of a JW family that was nice enough to take me and my 23 year old mother to the International at the Astrodome.
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Scott77
I was also a newbie cultist (adult convert). so I had no friends or family there. People in my own congregation were already virtually shunning me. Newbie cultists without family or "connections" in the cult aren't really worthy of any attention after they're baptized.Getting someone to even speak with me was like pulling teeth. Finally-Free Hi FF,
Thank you for introducing a new word for us. 'Newbie Cultist'. Yes, very true, their problems are unique. I was one of them and can state, finding friends was way hard in many instances.
Scott77
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biometrics
In the early 1980s mum took four kids to a convention in Sydney. It was pouring rain for most of the four days, and the seating was mostly outside. We all sat there in the rain with disposble raincoats on. Mum wouldn't let us get out of the rain, and gave a stern (almost crazy) look on her face if we even suggested it. The rain was that bad we coudln't even hear the speaker.
I ended up getting a the flu then a lung infection and took a few months to recover.
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Julia Orwell
I was a newbie cultist too, which provided its own challenges come convention time. Thanfully my friends ignored the 'save seats only for people in your family or who are traveling with u' because every time I took the bus I'd have no one to sit with! So my friends would save me a seat.
As a newbie I did quite well because I was a gregarious teenager. It was only when I moved to a remote place in my mid 20s I suddenly found myself, a single sister with no connections or Jw family, on the outer. Then in my later 20s I moved back to my old cong in the more populous part of the state and had friends again, but I got overlooked for social things as a new young ones group had emerged and my old peer group had married or moved. A couple of young newbies befriended me but as they were males, we couldnt get too close...