I would love to see our NN back. You did the best you could at the time, to protect the safety of a forum member. Don't beat yourself up, and hopefully we will see our passionate defender of children's and women's rights back on the forum.
You do a GREAT job, Simon, and I sincerely hope you don't spend time on regrets for ever starting this board. I, for one, have found much solace here, as well as the great fun we used to have ... remember the Friday nite DJ parties? haha! Please don't forget how much good you have done ... when things go awry, it's easy to get discouraged. You have put so much work into this .... and Angharad as well! ... it's worthwhile .. don't EVER question the wisdom of starting it, or keeping it going. I KNOW it's taken a toll on your personal life (how could it not? even the time spent is time away from your kids), and fully appreciate the sacrifice involved.
Much love to you, Angharad and family.
And NN, if you're reading this,,, come back,,, we need you! :))
xo
tal