When I went inactive, it was somewhat distressing for my parents. However, when my dad heard from several JW "friends" that many ex-bethelites have also gone inactive or *gasp* "apostate", my parents were, like, "makes sense". So they realized that it wasn't just them, it was the entire bOrganization.
Apostacitis is certainly a big deal in WT. Of course, it gets so complicated with all their "new light" where yesterday's "apostacy" becomes today's "food at the proper time".