Concerning your observation " she hinted that the marriage did indeed depend on me being a good little witness boy."
You might ask her who is going to take care of her fragile little bones if she kicks YOU to the curb. Does she think the elders will bring her into their home and care for her? Does she fantasize that an angel in the guise of a Bethelite will materialize to carry her through life? Does she expect to be provided with manna as a reward for her loyalty to the organization? Even if manna was real (it wasn't), it was provided by God, not by a homewrecking publishing empire!
I'm not suggesting you repeat my comments to her. As I said, I fear for your future.
Thank you for the welcome back.