Christ said, " What man of YOU with a hundred sheep, on losing one of them, will not leave the ninety-nine behind in the wilderness and go for the lost one until he finds it? And when he has found it he puts it upon his shoulders and rejoices. And when he gets home he calls his friends and his neighbors together, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, because I have found my sheep that was lost.' " - Luke 15:4-6
In contrast ...
Your wife said, "You disfellowshipped people think that anyone still cares about you? You are old news the week after you are announced no one even cares or thinks about you it's like whatever!"
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I guess this JW, and all the other JWs she implicates as "not caring" have not read the parable of the Prodigal Son, either. Such a contrast between the attitudes of JWs compared to the Biblical Christ's approach.
And they wonder why 2 out of 3 never come back!!