My old staunch JW grandma is always complaining that none of the JWs come to visit her when she hasn't been to the meetings for months. I pointed out to her that the only ones showing her constant genuine Love are her df daughter and her inactive granddaughter (me) and all her other family who aren't in the truth. Her JW son and his wife treat Grandma like she's a df person. They shun her.
I moved far away to get away from the constant pressures of why i wasnt at meetings. Thankfully I have big wooden gates that I can lock at my new place. The elders know I'm here. Ive seen JWs knocking on my gates then sitting in their cars for several minutes when I don't answer. I had to go get my grandma at the assembly last weekend as she was having chest pains. It was the most nerve wracking thing ever having to walk into that hall full of JW.
I'm the happiest I've ever been far away from all the JW rubbish. That's what matters.