I know what you mean about the 1980s being the last decade where the truth was exciting and still made sense and Armageddon seemed innocent. I can just about remember that as I was a child at the time. The generation change in 1995 really spoiled everything. It's been downhill ever since then.
The neutrality thing still attracts me to the Witnesses. And I still believed they had it right on the Trinity and God's name, that was until I stopped believing in God at all.
I tried to promote the idea of "atheists for Jehovah": sort of for people who enjoy the community, lifestyle, and some values of being a Witness, but as an idea it never got off the ground.