So when are you going back, minimus. And why are the jws taking care of your mum and not you, her loving son? Perhaps you are funding their efforts for her. I know you are merely inactive, not df'd or da'd; so that is not an issue. I know you care about your mother and I think you are just poking around a bit.
Any way many a pedophile is known for being a great citizen and taking care of family.
I know of more older jws that are ignored by jws in their family and congregation, even jws expecting the non-jw family to be responsible for care whether the family do it or not.
*** w10 5/15 p. 19 Remain Spiritually Strong While Caring for a Sick Relative ***
When discussing what material provisions should be made for elderly widows in the congregation, the apostle Paul wrote: “If anyone does not provide for those who are his own, and especially for those who are members of his household, he has disowned the faith and is worse than a person without faith.” Paul reminded fellow Christians that if their course of action was to be “acceptable in God’s sight,” they must care financially for their own aged parents and grandparents. (1 Tim. 5:4, 8) However, others in the congregation can and should provide practical assistance