I've noticed that the zeal newcomers have is rarely about showing off to other people, it's about being so thrilled to have 'made it' and found 'the truth' they're just talking about it to everyone and can't understand why people can't see it the way they do.
The first thing to be learned is that Christianity is entirely an invention of a few influential men.
The first three hundred years of the Christian movement MUST BE STUDIED to gain a perspective on the process.
Every so often through history somebody REINVENTS it. That reinvention gains popularity.
Christianity has always been a do it yourself project.
No two readers of the bible come away with the same clear thoughts. There is a reason for that. Too many different minds
tampered with it. Nobody can restore Early Christianity. Nobody.
Why? Because there were so many versions of Christianity in the early stages, that's why. Chalk and cheese.
OPINIONs. That is what the birth of Christianity was all about. Different ideas and opinions.
Followers got together and formed in-house discussion sessions and networked their way to a loose coalition.
Those early groups didn't agree with each other. There were fights.
It is no different today.
A newbie is excited about something that exposes the cracks in the lie and then sticks around for somebody else's spackle.
There is man and there is man's idea of God. That is all there is.
Choose your own adventure.