When I first really woke up, and soon found this site, I went right back to the beginning and the first posts etc, then I began to read all posts by those who I particularly thought had some insight to offer. Leolaia, Alan F, and many names that don't come so readily to mind, all contributed brilliant posts, and shaped my thinking, enabling me to use Critical Thinking skills, with a mind open to Truth.
It was quite fascinanting to see the Evolution (LOL) of this site, and to read all the arguments/discussions/debates, many of which contain all the answers a Newbie could wish for, hence I have not had to ask too much in the way of guidance for my thoughts.
If you have the time, and the interest, it is well worth going through that exercise, it is the "equivalent of a University education", to steal a phrase from somewhere.
I do think the O.P makes a very valid point, we who are used to the rough and tumble of this place, and the fun names we have for the JW's and the WT should perhaps remember that we have many visitors to the site, and they may be more sensitive and more in the grip of the WT than I was, so we do not want to put them off, so that their first fearful, mind-controlled thought is, "Ooooh, this is, shock horror, I may have just let a little bit of wee out, an Apostate site !".