I got a really lengthy PM from a poster I don't know, scolding me for saying there is a difference between rape and religious abuse. (Honestly it took me a while to figure out what the person was even talking about.) The dictionary begs to differ. If you want to equate 2 things, go ahead, but don't rewrite the dictionary.
I recently had a conversation with someone who says eating oysters is vegetarian. When I pointed out it isn't, the person said we all have different definitions of vegetarian. Again, words mean what they mean. If you want to make up a new word, go ahead, but rewriting the dictionary doesn't happen just by you wishing it. Make up your own word if you feel you need a title to describe what's on your plate.
I am remembering how the j-dubs rewrite the dictionary all the time.
An "in-group" language is usually constructed.
Don't like the definition of cult? Too bad. It means what it means. Protesting that its definition applies to too many religions doesn't make the word magically not apply to you. Not ready to accept or use it in terms of your current or former religion? That's fine, but that's something inside of you, not inside the dictionary.
Oy vey.