Today as i was driving around taking care of errands the memories of different people we had for friends in the JW kept crossing my mind. They are "good" JW as they say - mostly pillars, never missing meetings. Awhile before I left forever, I remember thinking, Ya know this one and that one, who make a big deal about how much they love us, would never speak to me if they knew how much I resent the time this religion uses up out of my life. And if they knew how much I hate going to the meetings and having to wear meeting clothes. So really, can I believe they LOVE us, when in a split second they would cut us off if we changed into people who didn't do all this stuff anymore.
If people love someone just because they are in the same religion, and stop loving when the beloved change their minds about religion, then it's clear to see, it wasn't love. It's all just insanity, playing games, living in a fantasy.