villagegirl, you needed my daughter as your friend. In High School she met a girl studying with the Witnesses. The girl's parents were not JW's. My daughter befriended her. My daughter first looked up all sorts of scriptural reasons why the Witnesses were faulty, and had a few long and heated debates with her friend. Then she invited the girl to her church youth group. The girl promptly integrated in to the youth group, wrote down everyone's phone numbers, and there was no more talk about baptism.
They have stayed in touch over the years and the young woman is a proud parent and doing very well. In BC, in fact.